So… What’s in Your Sacred Sexual Pleasure Chest?

Whether you call it a sacred sexual pleasure chest or a tantric tickle trunk, you need a rich assortment of sensation sex toys, tucked away for those intimate, playful moments. Most of the world’s greatest lovers live on a budget so they love versatile, multi-use sex toys.

Before hitting the sex shop, try your local office supply, hardware and grocery stores.  Put some things from the sex shop on the list, but start with inexpensive sensation play toys.

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Tenga Eggs

These small silicone hand job sleeves are packaged as cute eggs. The interiors feature bumps and grooves designed with pleasure in mind. Lube up your Tenga Egg and run it up and down the shaft of your penis.  Women, watch his eyes roll back in his head. They can be later washed or discarded. If you are careful, one Tenga Egg can last about 10 times.  Each variety (indicated by name and colour) offers a different interior terrain. Tenga eggs have been proven to benefit those men with premature ejaculation issues. The on-line Tenga Store offers the best prices and most variety.

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Men, why not make a plaster cast of your penis, particularly prior to to undergoing  prostate surgery?  You don’t need pricey toys in your sex kit.   While the Hitachi Magic Wand  and the Intensity Shocker Vibrator both rock, your home or local hardware stores houses the best available toys. For instance, put your arms behind your back, slide a pillow case over both arms and lie back. Your partner then challenges you to get your arms out. A pillow case doubles as a soft, sexy restraint. You can easily get out of by rolling over, plus you already have one on the bed!

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Rope

Today, 200 feet of rope sells for about $15 at most hardware stores.  Measure it out and cut it into chunks of 10, 15, 25 foot sections. Put electrical tape on the ends and use a lingerie bag to hold it all and wash it in. Take an on-line rope class, or watch some youtube videos about rope bondage. Even with minimal practice, you can soon morph into a restraint expert. For safely reasons like rope malfunction, invest in a sharp pair of Lister Surgeon’s Scissors ($7) to add to your kit.

Blindfold

Use a scarf, sleeping mask or cheap air travel blindfold.  Better yet, why not invest in a high quality leather blindfold; they are the bomb! For a phenomenal turn-on, cover your partner’s eyes so the delicious sense of anticipation becomes almost unbearable! Introducing sensory deprivation into your sessions elevates your fantasies to the next level.  Use a blindfold to heighten your sexual experiences, forcing you to rely upon your other senses.

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Massage Bar or Soap Crayon

Solid massage bars turn into a liquid when warmed from body heat. In different flavours and scents, they resemble bars of soap you gently run over your partner’s body. They leave a lotion behind that you can use to perform the massage. They are especially great before you take a bath together. In the bathtub, Crayola Bathtub crayons for kids to write on your partner’s skin and leave sexy messages while getting them clean are fabulous! You can even make your own sudsy bathtub soap crayons so the bath can digress into something more romantic. Fabulous colours are available; the  darker colours let you create romantic love messages!

Washable Markers

Some kinksters use permanent markers to write naughty notes across their play partners’ bodies. However, a far more practical way to play involves using a set of washable markers in multiple colours to design tattoos or write love notes on your partner’s body BEFORE your sultry bubble bath.

Duct Tape

Duct tape can be used to restrain limbs, bind your beloved to furniture or as a gag. It clearly provides an extra sadomasochistic thrill when pulled free, attached body hair included. You can even make a Duct Tape Corset as see on Youtube, which would be fun for your partner to pull off. Today, duct tape comes in different colors and sizes.

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A couple of simple feather toys are vital for erotic fun.  Coupled with a blindfold, this constitutes the ultimate in affordable sensation play toys. A simple feather from the craft store or luxurious ostrich feather works wonders at sensitizing a submissive body. Visualize your tantalizing partner lying across the bed in candlelight, gazing at you with with lust. Now imagine decadently running a feather across their eager skin!

Ruler or Wooden Spoon

Buy a few solid wooden spoons to bolster your tickle trunk. Rulers from office supply stores can also be a little kinky. A ruler like a wooden spoon is a classic impact toy, with a plethora of wild, weird, wicked associations. You and your play partner will probably enjoy this long before you introduce the titillating teacher/student role-play or schoolgirl outfits into the picture.

Bullet

This affordable little toy offers the utmost in versatility. The Bullet requires a few small batteries but it really moves. You can use it around nipples, clitoris,  penis tip and back of the testicles. Avoid the anus as the small Bullet would be hard to fish out!

Pervertibles are inexpensive household items that can add some sizzle to your regular coupling, such as chocolate sauce, maple syrup, whip cream, clothes pins, hot wax, ice cubes, latex gloves, almond oil, baby or olive oil, pet store leashes and collars, and shower curtains or drop clothes (for protecting the bed). Essentially, the goal is to use out-of-the-norm items to spice up your love life. Striving to keep your sex life fresh and exhilarating pays off huge dividends in all aspects of your relationship.

rosy both moreI am Dakini Devi Bliss, a Certified Tantric Educator, Sacred Intimate and Sexual Embodiment Coach  and Blissful Bodyworker.  A lifelong spiritual seeker, I have been formally trained in energetic aura manipulation, Kundalini awakening, Tantric healing, massage therapy, Reiki and Dark Tantra.  In my multi-disciplined approach, I manipulate sexual energy for the highest good.

With a background in tantra, kundalini yoga, meditation, qi gong, energy work, sexual psychology and relationship coaching, I employ a unique, rich healing blend for each client.  My tantra training initiation was a lengthy process extending over several years, including studies in India, to gain the requisite experience to instruct others.  My spiritually-based practice is ideal for those who wish to embrace a higher, enlightened state and use tantra to create kundalini awakening and a deeper connection to their partner(s). I possess a nurturing, joyful nature with a peaceful warrior mindset.

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